How to Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn
Top Porno Movies That Will Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn
For guys who want to watch porn with their girlfriends, the options can seem slim. “Hey, Honey, how about Teen Cum Squad?” To pick a sex film that a girl would like to watch with you, you have to find one that may differ from your tastes. Many guys like to see two girls having sex together, but how many women do? Granted, there are some, but for the majority watching this kind of scene with a boyfriend will probably just turn the girlfriend off. Watching porn means you’re watching other people have sex. If she notes how turned on you get from watching other girls, it may send the wrong message: that you don’t want her, but these other girls.
The escapism and fantasy of watching porn with a girlfriend always carries this danger, that it implies you want her to be someone else. Now, if she can enjoy the person you’re enjoying, or be more engaged with the scene, she’s more likely to forgive the implied slight to her ability to arouse you.
How to Get Your Girlfriend to Watch Porn
The following is a list of recommended directors to look for both of you, but one request: by the time you’re actually choosing a porn to watch together you should have already figured out—through conversation, guys!—what kinds of porn she likes. Many women do watch porn, but just as many don’t or never have. Be prepared that porn may be a pandora’s box for your love life. Exciting, but also wildly unpredictable. For example, in Veronica Hart’s Edge Play, a woman learns of a couple devoted to fulfilling women’s sexual fantasies. Intrigued, she becomes involved with them, fulfilling her own kinky dreams in the process. Veronica Hart’s work as a director (like most female porn directors, she began her work in front of the camera rather than behind it) is known for its strong female characters and higher production values. The stories are usually fresher as well. These three qualities are attractive to women in porn: strong women they can role play as, better production quality to round out the luxury of the fantasy, and a real story to be swept up in, so that you’re not constantly reminded that you’re watching a porno.
Look for these three qualities in any porn you watch with your girlfriend. But in Edge Play, because a woman gets involved with a couple, you may be sending a signal that this is what you want—a threesome. This suggestion can harm your relationship rather than enhance it; it all depends on your girl. Be sure you know her well before bringing home that DVD or Blu-Ray. Now, to the list:
Adam and Eve’s Ultimate Line: Gentler Porn with a dream-like quality to them, though still explicit with the obligatory facial-cum shot for closure.
Vivid Video: Always the highest quality production with relatively strong plotlines, but without sacrificing any of the edge or intensity of real pornography. Be prepared for the money shot.
Nina Hartley’s Sex How-To’s: Highly recommended. A feminist who puts sex center stage, Nina Hartley has made a living making these intimate and educational videos that, unlike many other examples of the genre, sacrifice hot sex and hot people for diagrams and instructions. At bottom, these videos are porn that will teach you to be a better lover at the same time that you get to watch other people doing it.
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