How To Give Her Multiple Orgasms

OK guys. Before we get too far into this, let's remember one thing:

Men and women are different when it comes to sex.

Seems obvious, but lots of guys still forget this basic, bottom-line fact. For women, sexual desire is tied in a lot more to emotion and mood. If that's not happening, forget it. You might as well just order a pizza for the two of you and see what's on TV. You have to finesse the situation. So here are some ideas to consider:

• Set the scene. Pick up your dirty socks, change your sheets and pillowcases, shower, shave, put on some cologne (But not too much!) and put the dog outside. It's all about her, not you. Little details like subtle scents or soft lighting can go a long way towards helping to establish a mood where she's going to feel relaxed and receptive. Just trust your instincts.

• Foreplay. Here's where the biggest difference comes in. Guys are ready to roll in a pretty short time, but women love to be cuddled, kissed, nuzzled and teased. This is where your skills as a lover are going to be put to the test. Bring her pleasure with your lips and your hands for longer than you might think necessary. Drive her crazy with desire until she's ready for you. You'll know when that time is coming, too.

• Sweet-talk her. Tell her how beautiful she is and how much you want her. It can go a long way towards her pleasure and her desire for you. Use your imagination.

• Ask her. If you're already pretty comfortable with each other sexually and don't have too many inhibitions, you're better off asking her specifically what she likes and what feels good for her, rather than just guessing and blundering your way through things. Some women are going to be too shy or inhibited to talk about anything that intimate, but a lot of women aren't. She's going to appreciate the fact that you care enough to even find out in the first place.

• Change it up. If you know what kind of stimulation she likes already, do it… but don't do it all night. Lots of erogenous zones feel good to a woman, so try them. Try different combinations, different techniques, different places, different rhythms, and different angles. This sort of ties in with the previous tip— communication can be the key here.

• Remember that it's about her. Make it known that your concern is about pleasing her, and forget about how long it takes. Your patience will pay off for you and her both. Try bringing her to an orgasm during foreplay, before the sex even starts. That kind of finesse will go a long way with her.

Don't rush anything! Be sensitive and attuned to what she's feeling and what she wants! Trust your instincts, and if you don't have any, then develop some!

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